One of the biggest mistakes pet owners make is to treat cats like dogs. Remember that they are very different animals! Dogs are pack animals originally bred to work alongside people. In contrast, cats are relatively solitary animals that historically served humans by killing vermin on their own. [1] X Trustworthy Source American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals Leading organization dedicated to the prevention of animal cruelty Go to source Don’t smother cats or be offended if they hide from you sometimes. This is part of their nature.

Never strike a cat as this will only make matters worse. While spraying a cat with water to punish bad behaviours is a common tactic, water-spraying may make your cat fear and distrust of you [2] X Trustworthy Source American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals Leading organization dedicated to the prevention of animal cruelty Go to source

Avoid feeding cats milk; contrary to popular belief, dairy is unhealthy for them. Also avoid feeding cats chocolate, candy, raw eggs, raw meat or fish. [4] X Research source Remember that treats are not a substitute for full meals of cat food.

An arched back, upright hair along the spine, and unsheathed claws means that your cat feels threatened. Leave it alone for time being![5] X Expert Source Brian Bourquin, DVMVeterinarian Expert Interview. 20 December 2019. If your cat nudges you, it may want to play. If your cat curls its tail around you, it’s probably expressing contentment. When a cat approaches you with it tail pointing up and then curling round slightly at the top it is wanting to see you and be petted and play with you, let a cat check you out first by putting your hand out and letting them sniff it before you stole them. If its tail is tucked below or between its legs, your cat is likely feeling anxious or insecure. [6] X Research source

Cats do not meow at each other; they meow to communicate with people. Constant meowing may indicate illness and require a trip to the veterinarian. [7] X Research source

The next time your cat starts blinking at you, try mimicking the behaviour. [9] X Expert Source Brian Bourquin, DVMVeterinarian Expert Interview. 20 December 2019. By blinking slowly, you are communicating trust and openness, and fostering a loving relationship. [10] X Research source

Ensure that your cat cannot access poisonous substances. Keep your pantry and cupboard doors closed, as cats are curious animals and they may get into trouble. Outfit your cat with a collar with a quick release buckle (in case he gets stuck) that includes contact information in case it runs away.

Cats can be perfectly healthy eating dry food, canned food, or a combination of both. [11] X Research source Most experts recommend feeding your cat no more than two meals a day. In industrialized countries, one in five cats is obese, which can cause serious health problems. [12] X Research source

While cats are fairly independent creatures, they also need human attention and regular grooming. If going on vacation, consider a cattery or pet sitter.

Don’t suddenly change a cat’s type or brand of litter. When switching to a new brand of litter, gradually introduce it by mixing the new and the old.

Avoid brushing your cat against the grain of its fur; this may cause discomfort and stress. Remember to brush gently in long strokes rather than in short, rough strokes.

Encourage your cat to pounce on toys, not your hand!

One of the best ways to get a cat to love you is through its stomach!