Get as specific as possible. Vague ideas risk attracting more of the same or someone who’s not a good fit. For example: “I want a boyfriend who’s tall with blue eyes and dark features. He’s hilarious but has a serious side, loves helping others, and balances me out when I’m stressed. He’s reliable but spontaneous and loves traveling. ”
Try not to type your wish. Handwriting something is an act of creation that the universe finds favorable. It shows you’re putting in the effort! Keep your wish in your journal, tack it up on a vision board, or sleep with it under your pillow so it stays top-of-mind during your manifestation process.
Try regular meditating or making a vision board to help you get in the headspace to visualize clearly and happily. Hold on to that fuzzy feeling you get during your visualization. That positive energy is exactly what the universe needs to send your wish to you!
Acknowledge that you’re full of love, empathy, generosity, and understanding. You have all the tools you need to find and build a lasting relationship! When you let yourself stay full of negative thoughts, you prevent yourself from being open to finding Mr. Right.
“I love deeply and deserve to be loved fully. ” “I forgive myself for mistakes in old relationships when I didn’t know better. ” “I deserve to find a boyfriend who supports me for who I am. ”
Use your list of boyfriend qualities to brainstorm things you can do to develop some of the characteristics that you’re searching for. This does not mean you have to change who you are to attract a boyfriend. Instead, think of it as becoming a higher-vibing version of yourself.
Think of manifestation as both a spiritual, introspective practice as well as a path of action to help you reach your goals. You need both parts to succeed. Think to yourself, “How would a confident person who knows what they want approach dating?” and then try some of those ideas.
Remember that the universe will fulfill your wish at a time when it will do the most good. It can be frustrating, but do your best to stay patient and positive! Focus on things you’re currently grateful for so you don’t obsess over things you’re waiting for. Try starting a gratitude journal to help the time pass.
If your manifesting isn’t working, don’t feel like you have bad karma or don’t deserve success. You just need to refine your goals and manifesting method.
You feel an instant attraction to someone you’ve just met You feel a pull toward someone (maybe you dream about them or have déjà vu around them) You keep seeing angel numbers like 222 or others, which are considered a message of love.
Remember, the universe’s plan is always for the greater good. If you don’t find a boyfriend quickly, know that he’ll arrive when it’s best for you.
