Examples include popular music groups and singers, female-centric hobbies, and television shows and movies with a primarily-female audience.

See this guide for more details and tips on breaking the ice in a conversation.

If you are doing a video chat, make sure that the other person is real. It is fairly easy to fake a video using a recording, so ensure that the person is actually talking to you live.

Try telling a funny story about something that happened to you. It not only paints you as someone who’s humble and able to laugh at themselves, but it can also do wonders for breaking the ice. She may have a similar story!

Don’t get angry is she doesn’t want to continue the conversation. Dust yourself off and find a new chat partner. Don’t take out your frustrations on her.