Ideally, the first kiss will be soft but firm and passionate.
Make sure you brush twice each day, and floss at least once. It is good to get in this habit not only for your first kiss, but for your own health as well. Have breath mints handy so you can toss one in your mouth if you end up eating or drinking before the time you plan to kiss the other person. Don’t chew gum. Although it will give you fresh breath, having gum in your mouth during your first kiss can make it more difficult to enjoy the moment because you will have to worry about where the gum is in your mouth.
If you are a girl, avoid sticky lip glosses. The person kissing you may find it weird and unenjoyable if your lips are very sticky and messy.
Are they making a lot of eye contact? Obviously, this doesn’t always mean they want to kiss you, but if they make a lot of eye contact, they at least find you interesting. If they want to kiss you, often they will be staring into your eyes or looking at your lips. What does their body language say? If they have their arms folded across their chest, then they probably don’t want a kiss; however, if they have their body angled towards you, are sitting or standing close to you with arms open, then it’s likely a good bet.
It will also help you to relax if your eyes are closed.
Enjoy the moment! You only get one first kiss, and you will likely remember it for your entire life. Be present during the kiss. Don’t start thinking about how you can’t wait to tell your friends or write about it in your diary. Simply enjoy it.
There might be many reasons you want to experience your first kiss, but in general it is a good idea to wait until you feel ready for it.
Although the cutest girl or boy in school might be an obvious choice, it doesn’t mean they are the best choice. You should choose someone you find attractive on the inside as much as the outside.
Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Almost every one can remember the nervousness and worries they had before their first kiss.
For example, you can think about how you’ve taken good care of your lips and mouth, making you very kissable. You can think about how into you the person you will be kissing is, and how romantic it will be.
Remember that even if it doesn’t go perfectly, it is only the first of many.
Remember that this also goes for the person kissing you back. It can sometimes be a comfort to remember the other person is also nervous. If you do your best to act relaxed about the kiss, it will help your partner relax too, and you can both enjoy it.
