With shallow penetration, sperm may be deposited farther from the cervix, which means that the more durable female sperm (which may survive longer in the vagina) may have the advantage. [1] X Research source

There are also claims that the orgasmic contractions can help push the sperm into the cervix faster. Just remember, these aren’t proven by science.

Search the internet or ask your doctor to find a clinic near you. You can then schedule an appointment for the next date of ovulation.

Once he provides his sperm sample, the sperm is placed in a vial of a type of protein called albumin. Sperm can swim through albumin, but the Ericsson method assumes that male sperm, which are smaller, weaker, and faster than female sperm, can pass through the albumin quicker. This means that, after waiting for the sperm to swim from the top of the vial to the bottom of the vial, the sperm near the bottom will (supposedly) be mostly male, while the sperm near the top will be mostly female.

There are several different methods of artificial insemination in use, but the most common is Intra Uterine Insemination (IUI). In this method, sperm are injected via a catheter directly into the uterus.

PGD coupled with In-Vitro Fertilization (IVF) is one of the only ways to choose a baby’s sex with absolute certainty. However, it’s also one of the most expensive, resource-intensive methods available.

Usually, fertility drugs are taken for about two weeks via pill or injection. [6] X Research source Side effects for common fertility drugs are usually mild and can include include hot flashes, nausea, bloating, headache, and blurred vision.

You may also be required to take progesterone, a hormone that thickens the uterine lining in preparation for IVF.

Though the female partner is put under sedation for this procedure, it can be somewhat uncomfortable. Painkillers are usually prescribed to aid with post-surgery pain.

As with all sperm donations, in this case, the male partner will want to abstain from ejaculating for about 48 hours before giving his sperm donation.

Don’t be deterred by one unsuccessful IVF attempt. Generally, most women have a per-cycle success rate of about 20-25%. Success rates of 40% or higher are considered quite rare. It’s often necessary for perfectly healthy couples to have to undergo multiple rounds of PGD and IVF to achieve their desired pregnancy. If you’ve failed a cycle, ask your doctor why they think the transfer didn’t work, what they would want to change next time, and if there’s anything you can do to increase your chances of success. [11] X Expert Source Aimee Eyvazzadeh, MD, MAOB/GYN & Fertility Specialist Expert Interview. 24 March 2020.

Sperm production is at its highest when the testes are slightly cooler than body temperature. The male partner should avoid hot tubs or warm laptops. [12] X Research source ucsf. edu/news/2007/03/97970/hot-tubs-hurt-fertility-ucsf-study-shows Don’t smoke or drink. Men who smoke and drink heavily are more likely to have low sperm count. If you’re having a hard time quitting, talk to your doctor. Don’t take illegal drugs, as they can slow sperm production. [13] X Research source Avoid certain medications. A variety of medications can affect a man’s fertility. Talk to your doctor if you have concerns.

Avoid sex in the days leading up to ovulation. It is thought that this will help make the male sperm more concentrated. To find your ovulation date, calculate the day that is about 2 weeks before your next expected period. You can also purchase an ovulation kit at the drug store.

Consult your doctor before making major changes to your diet.

You can cut back on potassium by limiting navy beans, cantaloupe, and beets. Remember that dietary changes are not proven to increase your chance of having a boy.

Make sure not to take for more days than recommended on the label without consulting your doctor.

Visit a health store and ask an herbalist how best to use frankincense. Make sure to ask your doctor before trying new essential oils.