At most formal functions, it is customary for a gentleman to help you be seated. He will pull out your chair, wait for you to stand in front of it, and then nudge the chair forward to touch the back of your legs. This is sometimes done by your date, a waiter, or another man seated nearby.
Try not to use your hands for balance. Keep your arms either straight down or slightly bent at the elbow.
Keep in mind that crossing your legs at the knee is much less modest than keeping your legs parallel. It will both emphasize your legs while raising your skirt’s hemline.
Remember to always sit up with your torso straight.
Remember to make sure your hands are in your lap while uncrossing and recrossing your legs.
