If you don’t have her username, number, or Snapchat code, you can always add her by finding her in the friends’ list of a mutual friend. Avoid following her on multiple platforms, like Snapchat, Twitter, and Instagram, on the same day. Doing so might come across as too strong. [1] X Research source

When you send her casual snaps regularly, she’ll come to expect hearing from you. This will develop naturally into more snaps in the future. [2] X Research source

Use your snaps to paint her a picture of what you like, what you do, and what’s important to you.

Instead of “hey, what’s up,” try snapping her a pic in a cowboy hat with the message, “howdy. " Aim for a friendly, interested, playful tone. For example, you could write, “they’ll never catch me” with a snap of police driving by.

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Show how things change throughout the day. For instance, you could take snaps early in your shift, during lunch rush, and before you leave to indicate how busy you’ve been. [4] X Research source

Comments are a great place for you to ask casual questions. If you notice she was at a concert, you might ask, “Who’d you go see?” She’ll likely respond, and you can start talking about music.

Cute animals Shared favorites (like cars, books, and food) Familiar locations (like classrooms and buildings) Familiar people (like mutual friends)[5] X Research source

Filters can be accessed by going into camera mode, tapping and holding your face, and swiping left. Snapchat regularly releases new filters. Experiment with the various filters available to find your favorites. [6] X Research source

By building the frequency of your snaps gradually, you can get a streak started subtly.

Although this may be different for some, generally its frowned upon to share private snaps to your Snapchat story. [9] X Research source

The linking feature is perfect if you’ve just snapped her a pic of something she’ll want to buy. For example, you might include a link where she could buy shoes you just snapped her. [11] X Research source