If this guy shows signs of preferring you to be other than who you are, it’s not worth embedding yourself in his memory!
Always be well groomed and keep your hair in good shape. A good haircut and a well-made up face can go a long way to creating a favorable first impression. Ensure that your clothes are ironed and clean too, as when they’re not, they suggest that you can’t be bothered with anything or anyone. That’s not likely to make a lasting impression; at least not for a good reason! Be charming. The inner glow is the part that will shine forth most in your well-presented self and it is charm that will be long remembered after your physical presence has departed the room. [3] X Research source
Choose a scent that works for you. Not all perfumes work well with each person and you need to learn which scents work best for you through trial and error. [5] X Research source Moreover, they change as women age, so be sure to keep up-to-date By the time you meet the current Mr. Right, be sure to have this aspect well and truly sorted out. If you are allergic to scent, or the man you’re interested in is allergic to scents, skip this step entirely. Just be clean and have your natural scent. Your own body odor is very pleasant and attractive in a low subliminal way, especially at the middle of your monthly cycle while ovulating. If you track your body rhythms, you may want to schedule memorable dates for mid-cycle so that subliminal pheromone effect hits him hard in the instincts. If you haven’t had much luck with finding the “right” scent that sums up you, consider seeing a bespoke perfumer. This is a person who will ask you specific questions about your preferences and your lifestyle and will help you to choose the right notes to make up a perfume tailored just to you. It costs a bit more but once you get this mix right, you’ll easily be remembered by your own signature scent, which can be very hard for anyone else to match.
Be a good listener. Wait to hear all he has to say and don’t interrupt. Use the opportunity to talk as an opportunity for him to tell you more about himself, not as one for your own stories. For yourself, don’t reveal too much too soon, as a sense of mystery will definitely leave you on his mind, wanting to know more. Say his name throughout your conversation together. It will make him feel special and appreciated by you and it creates a link between both of you that is much more certain than if you just said “hey, you” or failed to mention him by name. Be complimentary about his considerate nature, his caring ways, his thoughtfulness. You want more of this, so it never hurts to praise it! Notice when he says or does things that mean a lot to you and remark upon them casually to show you’re impressed. Repeat information he has shared with you at some point in your conversation to show that you took notice and found it worthy of remembering. Be interested in what he’s interested in and reflect this in what you say back to him. This is something that does get remembered because it matters to him and engages his attention. For example, you may not know much about the sport he likes but reflecting his enthusiasm for a team win or a goal shows that you are at least capable of being interested. Even when you disagree with his points of view, do so respectfully and also point out how you appreciate and acknowledge his viewpoint even where you differ.
More than anything else, wear your confidence and belief in your value with a warm smile. That warm smile will linger in his mind longer than anything else.
Keep your interesting life’s pursuits going regular as clockwork. Don’t be bothered that he’d rather see you; let him know he can see you on the night you’re actually free, for real. He’ll be enthralled and as curious as can be. . .
Be sure to thank him for time spent together, just before you part. It’s nice and it’s thoughtful to show gratitude for a fun time spent together. Keep it simple, with something like “Thank you for a really enjoyable day; I had fun. " He’ll remember that you had fun with him, and you had the presence of mind to let him know it.
Be sure to thank him for time spent together, just before you part. It’s nice and it’s thoughtful to show gratitude for a fun time spent together. Keep it simple, with something like “Thank you for a really enjoyable day; I had fun. " He’ll remember that you had fun with him, and you had the presence of mind to let him know it.
