Giving gifts Going on an adventure or experiencing something new Quiet quality time, enjoying the company of a few close friends Talking and encouraging each other
Try to plan a surprise that’s related to your friend’s hobbies, taste in music, or other interests. If his or her favorite band is coming to town, consider buying tickets so that the two you can go to the show together. If you can’t think of anything that your friend immediately needs or wants, try to imagine something that he or she might conceivably want, but hasn’t talked about. For example, if you know that your friend likes to read, try to find a book that she might find interesting—something that she probably hasn’t read. Bring her a snack that she loves.
Someone who enjoys talking might love a video of family and friends saying what they like about her, or cheering her on to her next big step in life. If your friend enjoys new experiences, but has been complaining about stress, take him on a relaxing day trip to a park or tourist destination. Someone who’s happiest during a quiet evening at home can still get a surprise when you decorate her house with a theme based on her favorite movie, then stay in and watch that movie with her.
Make sure the guests will enjoy themselves as well. The white water rafting might be perfect for your friend, but make sure there’s something for everyone to do. Try to invite people that your friend knows well, especially if he or she tends to be shy or introverted. If your friend is a social butterfly, she may not mind if you invite new people that you think she’ll like.
Consider arranging for another mutual friend to walk through the scavenger hunt with your friend and drop hints if he gets stuck. Plan ahead. The mutual friend should be walking with the friend you’re planning to surprise—as if everything is normal—when he or she finds the first clue.
