If it helps, you can lightly caress your body to get in the mood. But you should save most of that for your phone conversation.
“I’ve been thinking about your toned arms all day. " “I miss you and your body so much. " “I love hearing your voice. "
“I’m wearing your favorite bra. " “I’m not wearing any underwear. " “My dress is really tight around my chest. " “My shirt is tight around my biceps. " “I’m wearing that belt you love to take off. " “I’m wearing a button-down shirt. It comes off pretty easily. "
“I wish your arms were around me right now. " “I wish I could kiss your neck right now. " “If you were here, I’d start nibbling on your ear. You wouldn’t be able to stop me. "
As you keep talking, you can start touching yourself in your erogenous zones. Let your lover know exactly what you’re doing to your body. If you’re caressing your breasts or stomach, tell them. Describe all of the sensations you feel to your lover. If you start to feel a sexy shiver after lightly caressing your neck, describe it.
You can also ask your lover to take off their clothes. Ordering them around will be extra hot. You can just say, “Now take off your shirt” or, “I want you to pull down your skirt. " When you start taking off your clothes, you can ask your lover for validation. As you’re taking off your shirt, you can ask, “Are you sure you want me to take off my shirt?” This will help paint a visual image for your lover.
Don’t be shy – tell your partner when you’re touching yourself, and let them know how it’s making you feel. Be as graphic as you want. As in real sex, it’s pretty difficult to climax at the same time as your partner. If you climax first, just keep talking dirty to turn on your partner. Don’t stop and ruin the mood. Keep talking dirty until both people are satisfied.
