Seek to make people laugh. Whether it’s asking where your cell phone is when you’re holding it or saying something wrong accidentally (or so they think), people like somebody who makes them laugh. Prepare yourself in advance by writing down and memorizing a few jokes. Or, find other fun things to share, such as stories about silly things that have happened to you.
If you know very outgoing people, they tend to be very loud and clear when they’re talking, and sometimes like shouting, too. Reading aloud helps to talk loud and clear.
Getting out of your “comfort zone” and gradually taking more social risks, such as talking to people and initiating conversations can be great way to build social confidence.
When you’re talking to someone and you don’t say the right thing don’t beat yourself up about it. Try to relax and go with the flow. When you beat yourself up about saying the wrong thing you feel more pressure and will eventually mess up again.
