Since Caps are so reserved, if you want to flirt with a Capricorn, you may have to make the first move. (If your Capricorn approaches you first, it means sparks are flying!) But go slow: Capricorns can be very flirtatious once they feel comfortable, but when you first start talking to your Capricorn crush, keep things friendly and casual rather than flirty. The same rules apply to texting a Capricorn woman—and be sure to text back quickly. If you don’t see your Capricorn regularly, texting might be easier for the ever-busy Cap than face-to-face interaction. Make sure to cut to the chase or be entertaining. Caps love to help and laugh, but they don’t like the mushy stuff. If the texting doesn’t revolve around Capricorn’s assistance, or humor, you may get ghosted.
Pay special attention to how her body movements respond to your own: we tend to mirror the body language of people we like, so if she crosses her arms when you do, or if she runs her hands through her hair when you do, it could be a subconscious sign she is interested in you. [1] X Research source
Keep in mind that the time she is able to devote to you might be very little to start with! A prudent Capricorn woman is far too calculating to jump into a relationship head first, and certainly not at the expense (or perceived expense) of her career. Unfortunately, this means you might need to take things a bit slower than you’d like, but it’s worth it.
Return the favor by showing support for her goals and complimenting her on her achievements. Caps don’t like excessive adulation, but they do appreciate recognition for their accomplishments. It can be hard for Capricorns to balance their relationships with their ambitions, so help her maintain the balance: cooking and cleaning for her will save her time and make her feel loved.
When she confides in you, be a good support system—but also confide back! Open up about your own past, dreams, anxieties.
Wondering where to take your Capricorn lady? Fear not, as she’s probably made the plans already, down to the minute! When planning a date, remember: Caps are all work and no play. If you want to make a Capricorn woman fall for you, plan a date that satisfies her need for both intellectual stimulation and peace. [6] X Research source
The physical affection might not extend to PDA, or at least not at first. Capricorn women can be extremely sensual, but they are very conservative and restrained in public.
Your Capricorn may even try to help you with your finances—that’s how organized and committed to self-improvement Caps are! So if she meddles, let her. That being said, Capricorn women are highly independent, and they value independence in their romantic partners. So take her financial advice, but show her you’re self-sufficient by taking responsibility for your affairs yourself. [10] X Research source
Your Capricorn may even try to help you with your finances—that’s how organized and committed to self-improvement Caps are! So if she meddles, let her. That being said, Capricorn women are highly independent, and they value independence in their romantic partners. So take her financial advice, but show her you’re self-sufficient by taking responsibility for your affairs yourself. [10] X Research source
Talking about the future helps her see if your long-term goals align: Do you want kids? What’s your five-year plan? Respond by showing her you’re future-minded, too. Not only will this show her you’re just as committed as she is, but your organization and foresight will be a huge turn-on for her.
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