You could text, “What 3 places are on your dream travel list?” or, “What was your least favorite class in school?” Keep texting questions back and forth. Think of this as a lightning-fast way to get to know each other.
For example, message, “Do you like it when a woman (or man) makes the first move, or do you prefer to do it yourself?” or, “We have a problem—I think you + me = trouble. "
Chances are, he won’t be able to resist a “Want to hear a joke?” text from you. You can also send a funny text like, “Of all the Patrick Smith’s I know, I’ve decided you’re my favorite. 😘”
You could something like, “BTW, you rocked the jacket that you wore today,” or, “How is it that you can make everyone in the room light up when you walk in?”
For example, text him, “Let’s go do paintball! Are you free right now?” or, “Have you ever gone kayaking on the lake? I want to take you out!”
For instance, text him, “I hope you don’t have plans this weekend. You know that sold-out concert? Guess who got tickets!” Or, send him a picture of you getting your hair dyed a ridiculous color along with the message, “Thoughts? 😛”
For example, text him something like, “You always know the best restaurants in town. Where should I go for Vietnamese food?” Try texting something like, “I want to take a language class. What language do you think would be the most useful to learn?” This can spark a whole conversation!
Keep the texts about your social plans brief so he wonders what you’re up to. For example, if he asks what your plans are for the night, text back, “Going out with co-workers. Supposedly to hear an amazing band. 😏”
For instance, to get his mind racing, you might send a suggestive photo that doesn’t reveal everything. Here’s a short, sexy text you could send, “Think we could last all night? 😉”
Try to match his texting style when you do reply. For example, if he texts you a brief, “How’s it going?” do not text back a paragraph. Instead, keep it short, too. Think of this ask matching his communication style so he feels comfortable.
Pay attention to his responses. If you’ve touched on a topic that he doesn’t want to discuss, he may go quiet and you won’t get a text back from him. Don’t panic! Just try a totally different topic and see if he replies.
