“You’ve got such an interesting perspective on life. I’ve never met anyone like you!” “I’ve been loving all of your movie recommendations. You’ve got great taste. " “You’re so much fun to be around. I’m always in such a good mood when we’re together. "

Give them flirty compliments like, “That shirt really brings out your eyes” or “I love your jacket. You look so handsome!” Be physically affectionate, too. You might try touching his shoulder in conversation, greeting him with a hug, or even giving him a spontaneous kiss when you’re out on a date.

Getting drinks and dessert at a new cocktail bar or coffee house Going on a challenging hike Taking a day trip out of town Checking out a drive-in movie

Pick dates that help you get philosophical conversations started. You might try visiting a bookstore, an art gallery, or a history museum. Share your thoughts with him freely and don’t be afraid to disagree respectfully. You might say, “I like the way this poet explores memory in their work. What do you think?” Don’t be afraid to get personal if you’re comfortable! Gemini is a very inquisitive and introspective sign, and they love getting to know someone on a deeper level.

Try asking follow-up questions to show that you care. If he mentions his favorite band, you might ask, “What’s your favorite album of theirs?” or “Have you ever seen them live?” Avoid scrolling through your phone or watching TV while a Gemini is talking to you. If you appear disinterested in him, he may move on pretty fast.

Send a Gemini man a good morning text to show him that you care. You might say, “Woke up thinking of you!” or “Morning! Hope you’re having a good day so far. 😊” Give him updates on what’s going on in your life. Try texting him, “So glad that meeting is over! Hope work is treating you well” or “Been busy running errands all day. What’ve you been up to?”

Tell him how much you appreciate his sense of humor. You might say, “You always know how to make me smile” or “You’re like the funniest guy I know. " Show off your sense of humor, too. You might try sending over a funny YouTube video that reminds you of him or a humorous observation you think he’d appreciate.

When he’s out with friends, make plans of your own or dedicate some time to your hobbies. A Gemini is drawn to someone with lots of independent interests and friends of their own. Try your best not to get jealous or upset if he needs time to himself. Maintaining such an active life can be pretty exhausting, so he may just want time to recharge.

Changing plans is one thing, but canceling them or being late is another. It’s okay to speak up for yourself if he’s not respecting your time. You might say, “I’m up for anything Thursday, but I’d appreciate it if we still met at 6:00 pm. "

If you’ve been spending a lot of time in your neighborhood, make plans across town and explore. Choose a new restaurant every time you go out for food. If you’ve been going to the movies a lot, try checking out a play or a concert instead.

An ultimatum might have the opposite effect if you want to settle down, as Geminis don’t respond well to pressure. If you’d like to take your relationship to the next level, give him time and broach the subject in a calm conversation. You might say, “I’ve really enjoyed spending time with you and could really see this going somewhere. What do think?”

Avoid flirting with other people or ignoring him to get his attention. This might make a Gemini think you aren’t interested, and he’ll be turned off by any game-playing. If the two of you disagree, use I-statements and try to find a compromise. You might say, “I feel hurt when we have to cancel our dates last minute. Maybe next time we can reschedule with a little more notice. "

Stay focused on your goals, like going back to school, finishing an art project, or applying to a new job. Maintain an active social life by spending time with your friends and family. Try out new hobbies, like playing a musical instrument, writing short stories, or joining a soccer team.