Take special care to affirm, share, and reinforce her feelings of joy, content, and rightness. Share happiness wholesomely, letting her enjoy the experience. Everything is transitory; so it is key to let the wonder and awe progress naturally. Feelings of friendship and kinship will be added to her collections of closeness, safely banked.
If you do not understand a complex explanation, ask her again without prodding or guiding her: “What really hurt you?”, and say “I’m not sure that I got the feelings that you were trying to communicate. " Make sure you don’t try to solve everything for her. Women want to feel listened to, heard, and understood — not explained to or not have all their problems solved by another person.
If the breach is great, seek a way of apology specifically for her and your specific shared circumstance. If you happened to have hurt a lady through thoughtless word, action, or inaction, and you would like to explain yourself, but do not know her mind, you must know that your approach, necessarily, depends greatly upon what you did or said that was so disruptive. If what you did was totally insensitive and crass, she may never be able look at you in the same light and it may be too much to expect that trust can be regained easily, if ever. She may, in fact, never be able to see you as the same person. However, if what you did to her is more trivial and does not seem so much to her, you might approach her sensitively to good effect. The chances of being forgiven by a woman lessens if you wronged her or humiliated her deeply. She may shut you out. If after forgiving you she acts uncaring toward you, it shows that she looks at the bad experiences as a painful one. You may keep this in mind and give her space and be as amicable you are able. A woman is more likely to forgive someone slowly while seeing how the offender behaves in the longer run. Many ladies approach happenings on an intuitive level, through emotional channels and try to understand the intents rather than trusting in the words alone (or at all). [3] X Research source Wondering why she is being aloof, humiliating you, or becoming hardened – it most probably means your efforts seem, to her, not enough to make up for what you did or your lack of true caring for her well-being, including internal, deeply felt concerns.
When she loses all hope about you, she may present an emotional chill. She may exhibit the “I could care less about you and your doings” attitude. Nothing you say or do will seem to make a difference to her at this point – nor will your needs or wants.
This states that many women are rather defensive about being offended or randomly scrutinized and stereotyped for being a woman by others. This has a high chance of her building a facade as a tough act or as her acting extra-frilly and especially feminine as over compensating. The more comfortable and unjudged she may feel while she is with you, the more she is going to speak her mind and get rid of any facade.
Conversing is one of the major ways to understand a woman’s mind. A human is bound to have weaknesses and strengths. If you are okay with your weaknesses and strengths and are not hiding yourself, a woman is also most likely to open up about her weaknesses and strengths.
Some women also experience mood swings rapidly due to their PMS. [12] X Research source [13] X Trustworthy Source US Office on Women’s Health U. S. government agency providing resources for women’s health Go to source It will benefit you to be aware of the fact that her health and physical changes have a constant impact on her which reflects in her dealings or reactions while interacting with others. It will help you to know that knowing a girl’s mind or being able to surmise her reactions may not have a hard and fast rule. Instead, it is about spending pleasant time with her. If you could do that and see her feel okay with being herself, you will have a better understanding of the lady in question.
With nothing like a “groom’s hope chest,” husband’s trousseau or groom’s planning, this means the man mainly has to agree on the event: where, when, show-up and say: “I do. " Kiss the bride. Go on the honeymoon.
